If your sex life has been lacking, then you need some serious help. Here’s how you can change it around and have the best sex ever.
Sex is supposed to be amazing. It’s supposed to feel great and please you in every way. You should roll over feeling satisfied, incredible, and on top of the world. And if you’re not feeling like that, then something is seriously wrong with your sex life.
Everyone deserves that toe-curling, back-arching, moan-inducing sex that leaves their legs wobbly, and a smile on their face for days. Without it, you can get all wound up and wonder what’s missing from your life. If this is you, then let’s see just how we can make sure you have the best sex ever… every time.
What does having bad sex mean?
You may not think much of your sex life if it’s less than fully satisfying, but it can really be a clue that something else is off. If you just can’t seem to get off during sex, here’s what might be really wrong in your sex life.
You may not be fully comfortable with your partner. You also might not be connected to them emotionally as much as you should be. You could also be way too stressed ABOUT getting off, and that can prevent you from having a good time.
How to have the best sex ever
Your best sex is still ahead of you, don’t worry. Sometimes we have to go through the tough times in order to get to the good stuff. It takes time, dedication, and the right tips in order to really have the best sex ever.
Here’s what you need in order to take your sex life up a notch and have that incredible sex I mentioned earlier. It may be a lot simpler than you thought, but it might be a little harder than you think, too. Make sure to try it all!
#1 Relax. This is honestly this biggest problem people have when having sex. If you’re not relaxed and you have too much stress, the sex is going to reflect that. Your body can’t fully be pleasured if you’re tense.
Make sure you’re not too stressed going into the sex, and stop worrying all the time. When you allow yourself to let go and just feel good, it helps SO MUCH in making the sex feel good. Focus on how it feels, and forget about what you’re stressed about.
#2 Communicate what you like. Communication is really the key to having the best sex ever. Without it, you just don’t know what your partner likes, and your partner doesn’t know what you prefer. So speak up and tell them!
You can even do this in a sexy way. When they do something you really like, just moan that it feels really good. Or whisper in their ear what you want them to do to you. Believe me… they’ll listen.
#3 Have sex often. You know what they say. Practice makes perfect! That’s also true for sex. The more of it you have, the better it’ll get. You’ll learn just what you need to do to make it feel great, and you’ll both get into a rhythm together.
#4 Be active outside of the bedroom. In this sense, I mean staying physically fit. When you exercise more, it’s actually easier for you to get off in the bedroom. This is mainly because exercising reduces your stress levels, and it also increases your sex drive.
#5 Use toys and props! Don’t be ashamed or embarrassed that you need some toys involved in order to have great sex. They can only add more pleasure! So bring some to the bedroom and learn how to use them in a way that you both enjoy.