And don’t forget about props! You know, handcuffs, blindfolds, and don’t forget the whipped cream! All of these can add extra elements to your sex life, and that excitement makes the sex all the more better.
#6 Foreplay is ESSENTIAL. Never, ever, EVER, skip foreplay. Unless all you want is to whip out a quickie knowing full well that it won’t completely satisfy you, always do foreplay. It’s essential for making sure both parties are ready to go for the main event.
#7 Take it out of the bedroom. Having sex in the same place every time can make it rather boring. If you’re in need of spicing things up, then take it to the couch, the living room floor, or even the kitchen counter. A change of scenery can change everything.
#8 Try new positions. If you’re not already having incredible sex, obviously the positions you’re doing aren’t hitting the right spots. So change it up! Try positions you’ve never done *or rarely do* and see if they make things a bit better.
#9 Be vocal. Hearing how much someone is being pleased makes things way better. So don’t be quiet unless you have to. Speak up and use some dirty talk. Obviously, only do so if you know how to master it, because otherwise, it can get a little awkward.
#10 Build tension. Tension in sex is your best friend. This can even start very early in the day. Start building anticipation and tension for sex right away in the morning for later that day.
You can even give your significant other a little preview as to what they’ll get later that day. Having this tension will make it nearly impossible to focus on anything else all day, and you’ll come home to great sex.
#11 Take your time. The key to having the best sex ever is to make it last. Make sure you’re pleasing each other, and slow it down. Allowing each other to really feel the pleasures and take it all in is critical in having the best sex ever.
#12 Set the right mood. You know what I mean. Light some candles, turn the lights down to a flattering level, turn on some of that slow-grinding music. Getting mentally in the mood to have sex is just as important as getting your body ready. So make sure you prepare.
#13 Stop worrying. Worrying about anything will ruin sex for you. Don’t be so concerned about getting off, that your partner is having a good time, or even if you paid your bills on time. Shove all of that out of your mind and clear it of everything but your significant other and how they feel against you.
#14 Repeat the stuff you like the most. If there’s something you KNOW you love and gets you off, then do it often and repeat it all the time. There’s no reason to change something when it’s good. As long as your partner feels the same way, stick with it, even if you’re trying new things when you start.
#15 Have a good time. Sex shouldn’t always be something you “have” to do. It should be something that you have fun with and that you really want to do. So don’t forget to have some fun with it! If you just let yourself have fun and make enjoying it the main focus, instead of just getting off, you’ll find that finishing is much easier.