You’ve been making eye contact with her all night, but is that enough? Before you chicken out, see if she wants the D – you might have a chance.
When you think about a woman wanting your “D,” most of the time you equate that to your dick. Makes sense, I mean, it’s not rocket science. However, the “D” stands for more than just that.
Let’s look at it metaphorically. What she wants isn’t necessarily your penis. I mean, it’s a bonus, but she wants your masculine energy, which is what is drawing her attention.
If she really just wanted only the “D” then you could basically stand with your pants down to your ankles and let the ladies admire what you have and decide if they want the “D” or not. But instead, you have to figure out if your masculine energy is something she’s interested in getting to know on an intimate level.
19 ways to know if she wants the D
Before you go chasing her around the club, you need to see if she’s interested in you. Women aren’t just about the physical, so even if she wants the D, you are going to have to work for it. But here are some telltale signs that she wants the D.
#1 She tells you. This is possibly the easiest and best thing that could ever happen. If she comes up to you and tells you she wants to go home, well, you don’t need to decode anything. She’s demystified everything right away. [Read: 12 obvious signs she wants you to ask her out]
#2 She asks you if you live alone. Yeah, she’s seeing if you have roommates or live at home with your mom. But why would she ask that? To see if it’s safe to go over to your place, silly – because she wants the D.
#3 She can’t look at you without smiling. If she’s constantly smiling around you, it’s a good sign that she’s feeling positive and enjoying herself. If she’s flirting with you and is all smiles, then most likely she wants the D.
#4 She suggests a place you two should go to. “We should totally try that new restaurant out.” Aww, she said “we.” That’s cute. It’s also a good sign that she’s interested in you. I mean, she wouldn’t say that unless she actually wanted to go out with you.
#5 She’s all about the physical contact. Is she stroking your arm? Touching your neck? Come on guys, people don’t touch people they don’t like. It’s called flirting, and she’s showing you she’s interested. So, try mimicking her movements and see her reaction. If she isn’t into it, then pull back. [Read: 15 body language cues a girl gives away if she likes you]
#6 She texts you at night. Women like their beauty sleep. However, if she’s texting you after midnight, she’s thinking of you in a different context. You know… a sexual context. However, don’t start sexting her. Let her open that topic up.
#7 She runs her hand through her hair. Women always flip their hair and play with it when they’re around a guy they like. They want to subconsciously expose their neck, and it also shows that they want the person they’re interested in to do the same to their hair. Humans are strange creatures.
#8 She notices the details. It’s all about the details. If she notices that your ears are pierced or that you cut your hair, that’s a good sign that she wants the D. She’s paying attention to the small things, and if she didn’t like you, she wouldn’t care. [Read: How to make a girl want you and think of you sexually]