Having a hot girlfriend may be the best thing that’s ever happened to you, but it’s not without its challenges. Here’s how to deal with them.
Some guys are lucky enough to score a smoking-hot girlfriend and can readily handle all that comes with it. But then there are some men who get a ridiculously attractive girlfriend, forget to think, and end up ruining the entire relationship!
I see this all the time. Many of my guy friends can get really attractive girlfriends, but end up not being able to handle it. This causes stress, fighting, and ultimately, the demise of an otherwise wonderful relationship.
There are way too many people out there who screw up great relationships, just because they can’t deal with their hot girlfriends. There are no excuses for poor behavior, regardless of whether it comes from insecurity or jealousy. Your girlfriend’s beauty is something to be celebrated, not something to be angry with or ashamed of.
Hot girlfriends come with a lot more hassle than you may think. Sure, you get to walk around with a hot piece of eye candy on your arm, but too much candy can make you feel less than great.
How do you deal with a hot girlfriend
Honestly, it’s not rocket science. You should be happy that you have a significant other that is so physically attractive. On the other hand, I can totally understand that it may be difficult from time to time. That’s why we have come up with easy ways for you to deal with having a hot girlfriend.
#1 Take your head out of your butt and appreciate her looks. Seriously, how can you not enjoy her looks more than you get upset about them? She’s hot! And honestly, she’s probably not looking that way to get attention from others. She is probably looking like that for you!
Get your head out of whatever it’s hiding in and appreciate her looks. Don’t be so down about the fact that you have a hot girlfriend. Be happy that you’re so ridiculously attracted to your significant other.
#2 Pay attention to who SHE is looking at. It may be hard to keep your cool when there are tons of other people checking out your woman, but what about where she’s looking? Just because other people are taking an interest in her physical appearance doesn’t mean that she’s looking elsewhere.
More than likely, she’s doing all she can to get YOUR attention and is only looking at you. She probably puts in effort to look great for you…and you’re too distracted by everyone else looking at her to see that she only has eyes for you.
#3 Address your own personal problems. If you’re getting jealous and angry that people are looking at your girl, there are probably deeper issues at play. You may have some deep-seated insecurity issues that are affecting your reaction to others giving your girl attention.
Address these issues—don’t ignore them. She is doing absolutely nothing wrong; you’re the one getting upset about it. If you want to make the relationship work, you’ll have to work on yourself and learn to avoid getting upset every time someone takes a long look at your hot girlfriend.
#4 Talk to her about it. Odds are, unless you’re really vocal about your dislike for other people paying so much attention to her, she might not know it’s a problem. If you’re someone who just gets grumpy for *seemingly* no reason at all without telling her, she’s going to assume she’s doing something wrong.
Take it from someone who has experienced this from her boyfriend before. He used to get randomly mad for what I thought was no reason at all. I thought he was annoyed with me and I blamed myself and actually got really upset sometimes.