Mr. Fix-it and the Home-Improvement Committee

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The most frequently expressed complaint women have about men is that men don’t listen. Either a man completely ignores her when she speaks to him, or he listen for a few beats, assesses what is bothering her, and then proudly puts on his Mr. Fix-It cap and offers her a solution to make her feel better. He is confused when she doesn’t appreciate this gesture of love. No matter how many times she tells him that he’s not listening, he doesn’t get it and keeps doing the same thing. She wants empathy, but he thinks she wants solutions.

The most frequently expressed complaint men have about women is that women are always trying to change them. When a woman loves a man she feels responsible to assist him in growing and tries to help him improve the way he does things. She forms a Home-improvement committee, and he becomes her primary focus. No mater how much he resist her help, she persist-waiting for any opportunity to help him or tell him what to do. She thinks  she’s nurturing him, while he feels he’s being controlled. Instead, he wants her acceptance.

These two problems can finally be solved by first understanding why men offers solutions and why women seek to improve.  

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